A very good story in the Chicago Tribune about Divorce Survival tips today. Here is the list of tips that the article cites. They are written by a counselor who counsels clients working through a divorce. No doubt divorce can be a traumatizing and emotionally devastating time in someone life. These tips can help you get through it as comfortable as possible:
--Talk about your problems with someone outside of work.
--Compartmentalize.
--Try to schedule your court dates convenient to your work schedule.
--Give your employer adequate notice when you have to miss work. .
--Don't communicate with your attorney during work, except in the event of an emergency.
--Don't communicate with your soon-to-be former spouse during work, except in the event of an emergency.
--Don't use the copier at work to copy litigation papers.
--Don't inadvertently involve your employer in your litigation.
--Don't use your office computer for personal use. .
--Don't ask your employer to reduce your pay during a divorce for any reason.
--Focus on work and your work priorities, but with a twist: Keep your focus short and intense.
--Conserve your energy.
--Make note of abuse.
Should you have any San Jose Divorce Lawyer questions, please contact my office. I am an experienced Family Lawyer who will fight for best interests. Whether the case is a Santa Clara County Child Support, or San Jose Child Custody.
Author's Notes
Monday, August 31, 2009
Long Term Marriages ending in Divorce
According to the National News in Australia, there appears to be a trend of long term marriages in Australia ending in divorce. It appears that couples are no longer willing to stick out a broken marriage once the children have left the household.
An interesting anecdote from the article is that while long term marriages seem to be ending in divorce at higher rates, the overall divorce rate is lowering, while the marriage rate is going up. This is good news for society as a whole because marriage often acts as a stabilizing force for societies.
I handle divorce, marriage, and dissolution in my San Jose family law practice every day. Should you have any questions regarding family law, please do not hesitate to contact my office.
An interesting anecdote from the article is that while long term marriages seem to be ending in divorce at higher rates, the overall divorce rate is lowering, while the marriage rate is going up. This is good news for society as a whole because marriage often acts as a stabilizing force for societies.
I handle divorce, marriage, and dissolution in my San Jose family law practice every day. Should you have any questions regarding family law, please do not hesitate to contact my office.
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